Let's say you have a friend. And this friend really isn't that close to you, more of an acquaintance. I mean they don't call you up and invite you places, and you really just rarely talk period. So let's say this so called 'friend' leaves her husband. Doesn't say it's for another man, but you're not stupid...Not only that, but you know of other men she has been with
If her husband asks you about her cheating, what would you say??
I'll tell you what I say, I say...You are husband/wife FIRST! You shouldn't be CHEATING!!
I personally would not lie, and will not lie. I do not condone cheating. In Oxbow it seems to be the thing to do, and everyone covers it up for everyone else.
My answer to the question is I would tell him the truth. I am firm in this answer, and if I lose a friend over it then I guess I do.
2 of the 10 commandments are as follows:
You shall not bear false witness against your neighbour (no lying)
You shall not commit adultery
Both fall into play in this situation. So you tell me, in the eyes of God, who did wrong here???
i believe i owuld tellt he truth. the husband has a right to know if his wife has been with someone else. I might now say who the other person was, but i woudl tell him shes not the angel she puts off as.
ReplyDeleteI find alot of wives/husbands cheat on their husbands/wifes(or so i hear), im not 100% sure if its correct, thats what i hear. I guess everybody has a right to do what they want, but not when it hurts other people, adn when u swore/signed soemthing for eternal love/ shit like that.
hmm that was not so subtle. But I totally agree with you 100%. I personally think that someone hee hee should take things into consideration and GROW UP!
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